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Dr Julie Smith · 2022

Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?

A clinical Psychologist writes down the skills she teaches in Session: short chapters on low mood, anxiety, motivation and self-doubt.

Everyday skillsLow moodAnxietyConfidenceStress

What it is about

Dr Julie Smith spent over a decade as a clinical psychologist watching the same thing happen in her consulting room: a client would learn one simple, well-evidenced skill, and their first reaction was almost always the same question. Why has nobody told me this before? This book is her answer, the skills she teaches in Session written as short chapters anyone can pick up.

The chapters are organized around ordinary hard moments: when your mood dips, when motivation disappears, when grief arrives, when self-doubt gets loud, when fear makes decisions for you, when stress builds. Each one explains a little of the science, then gives you something concrete to do, from catching thought biases as they happen to using your breathing to slow a spiral down.

Nothing in it requires a diagnosis, a crisis or any previous experience with Therapy, and the chapters stand alone, so you can go straight to the one you need.